Since the beginning of the pandemic, I have all but given up on dating. First it was too dangerous to meet with people. Then when people started inching themselves back out into the real world, even just a little it seemed like guys only wanted one thing. I had given up on online dating all together, taken down all my profiles, and made a firm declaration to focus on me. After all, I had so much extra time on my hands, especially after being let go from my job of several year